Details on Sins and Virtues

  

Previous article was good at laying the groundwork, however nature of each individual sin and virtue still has to be covered separately.

However, first is a a more conceptual idea.

Devilish sinful charm is not something like a guilty conscience. A demon is someone who willingly defy God as well as everything he stands for. Every rule and every virtue. You should not feel any guilt, just a complete determination to corrupt and defile everything you can get your hands on. As if you try to say fuck god with every action you take. Complete defiance like that of pirate and an outlaw. Why do you think girls like outlaws.

Similarly, an angelic purity and innocence is not a moral high ground. Any high ground, no matter how moral, is a sin of pride. Angelic purity and innocence is that a newborn puppy or a kitten, who is willing to blindly trust everyone around them. Like a freshly cleaned white clothes. Blank and unstained with any colors, but ready to be stained by the one who will claim it. That is the reason why the bride's dress is purely white, with no other colors in the mix. Even bride's face is covered in veil.

Lust/Chastity

The first sin is lust and the opposing virtue to that is chastity.

Lust is simply a desire to fuck, to have sex. Now some might ask, what is so wrong with healthy sexual drive. Why Church calls it sin, are they stupid, or is it something else. It is something else.

A guy who actively wants to fuck a woman or even fuck anything at all, will be well liked by women. So, a guy should not hide his sexual desires from object of his desires. Being confident and upfront about it can win a lot of points. Sure, you might have to observe some social norms, perhaps use innuendo, but you should not think of the desire to stick your dick into her as of something to hide from her.

The opposite is not true, however. A lusty girl would be called a slut and shamed. The reasons are many. First guys do not appreciate it if women have any sexual partners other than themselves. Being too lusty will make them think, you covet sex from others as well.

The second reason is physiological. It is a man who has a dick, and it is he who will be sticking it into a girl. As much as girl can be penis-envy and wish to have one herself, she does not have one. So, she should not behave as if she intends to stick anything into anyone.

She however should be receptive of his advances. Chastity is not the same celibacy where you deny all sex and sexual things. Chastity is loyalty to one partner paired with sexual passivity, where one does it to satisfy the other and not themselves. 

Men much prefer to think that sex is about satisfying themselves. Some even believe that girls do not need sex and even will feel better without sex at all. 

As much as girls probably crave it a lot more than men do, it just works better if they act like they only do it for him and only for him. They do it only to make him feel better by massaging his dick with their holes and body, not to satisfy any of their own cravings.

They should not fall into celibacy either, by willfully denying him sex. That is called cock-blocking and is not appreciated at all.

Maintaining careful balance between lust and celibacy is chastity.

Gluttony/Temperance

Gluttony often associated with overeating and getting fat. However, it should be taken in a broader meaning. An unrestrained behavior of any kind, where you just go for whatever, you want. "I want it all, I want it now:". Even:"I do whatever I want".

In contrast temperance is modesty in consumption of all things. Limiting yourself to your basic needs and doing with little.

Temperance is much easier to explain. Sad truth for many girls is that guys do not like fat girls. However, that goes much further than that. They also do not like girls who drink too much alcohol. Do drugs, smoke, eat too much, party too much, talk too loudly, spend too much and so on.

In fact, the more girl can deny herself, the more guys will like her. If that would not be true, then kimono and pencil skirts, that obstruct the movement significantly would not be popular with men. Sure, kimino is exotic Japanese dress, but many office girls around the world wear pencil skirts.

Thus, temperance is girl's best friend.

The opposite of temperance seems wrong, but I would like to quote Iskander from Fate/Zero here. "The king must be greedier than any other. He must laugh louder and rage harder. He must exemplify the extreme of all things, good and evil. That is why his retainers envy and adore him." Male retainers will hardly be impressed, but women will surely be and will want to sleep with him.

Women think that guy who is bigger than others in all things are also stronger and more alpha than the rest. May be dumb but it works.

To paraphrase this quote for girls. "The angelic girl should be more modest than any other. She must be the quietest and calmest of them all. She must exemplify the moderate and average of all things, good and evil. On then men would want to fuck such as mysterious angelic being."

Greed/Charity (Kindness)

Greed is desire for having more money owning more stuff as well as advancing your status in society. That seem like the most common-sense aspiration one can have. Acting contrary to all of these seems like the most stupid thing to do.

On the other hand, charity is something society approves a lot. There are plenty of various charitable organizations that help different people in need. Billionaires donate millions to charitable causes. So, throwing away your money does have some social benefit after all. Or is it?

I will start with a simpler question. Girls indeed prefer greedy man. For much of the same reason as the gluttony above. They can feel that if you are greedy who have what it takes to compete with others, win and take control of your prize. At the very least you will look like someone who knows what he wants and who goes for it. Girls like these qualities. Greed looks like strength and charity can sometimes look like weakness and stupidity. 

If not greed, then at the very least they do not find charitable behavior endearing at all, so you might as well be selfish.

Sure, charity is socially approved thing. However, there is more to it. On informal level people will appreciate it if you can help them or share/give something to them. Some will sure take advantage of it. That is another way to look at it. 

However, whether they have genuine need or taking advantage, they will still much rather interact with someone who gives them free stuff than with someone who do no. It is a tradeoff between wishing for more company at expense of money and other resources. Or preserving one's resources/belongings at expense of social isolation. Each make their own decision on this one. However, if one is greedy, then they should not complain that no one wants to talk to them.

Another thing is childcare. Children need a lot to grow up and parents should provide for them. Particularly a woman, as women do most of childcaring. If she is too greedy/stingy than kid will likely go without. That is not a good sign for a future mother.

Finally, unlike women who respect strength and intelligence, guys value people who give them free stuff much more than someone who does not do so, no matter what the reasons might be.

Sloth and Diligence

Sloth is often equated with plain laziness. That is true to a certain extent. However, there is more to it that just that. Sloth much rather be equated with indifference, rather than to laziness per se. 

In general laziness is too generic of a term, that people just slap on any inaction the do not like. However, doing so prevents you from thinking about actual reasons for such inaction, that are important to solving it. Thus, calling people lazy is sloth, as you cannot be bothered to understand reasons for their inaction.

Some might argue that sloth will never be appealing to any gender. In fact, it is women who often complain that their husband or bf is a 'coach potato'. Sure, you want to avoid this kind of pitfall.

However, if you spin if differently, suddenly you can look like a cool kid. Say something like "I could not care less for [insert the issue here]" or even "I do not give a fuck; I do not give a shit" and see how that changes the mood. Suddenly you are not lazy coach potato, but a cool guy who does not sweat small stuff and only cares for shit, that actually matters.

Now you can start attracting women with the power of your own laziness. How cool is that.

On the other end of the division is diligence. That is precisely the opposite of sloth. Attention to details and small stuff. Men do appreciate women who take due care and concern for small stuff precisely. 

Laborious attention to details, perfectionism is rarely praised openly and to great length, however it can be a game changer. Blizzard for example often say that they pay great attention to details in their games. The enduring popularity of World of Warcraft is a testament of how important Diligence is.

People say what not about Yennifer from Witcher series, but she never forgets that Geralt does not like portals and always gets out of her way to make sure she does not make him use portals. That is one of the reasons I actually liked her. See how important small stuff is.

That one can be hard to get right though. You need to be able to tell what small stuff is actually important and what is just a waste of time.

Wrath and Patience

Wrath is often depicted as some angry yelling and even violence provoked by some minor insults. That is oversimplification, however. Being the opposite of patience, wrath is impatience with people and circumstances. The infamous Karenism, where you cannot just tolerate the circumstances and have to lash out on someone.

The fact that Karen became a meme in itself probably does not require me to elaborate on the fact, why wrath is bad. Especially for a woman. However, I do need to better outline what is the opposite of being Karen, the patience.

Patience is important quality. Perhaps one of the most important for a woman. After all they have to wait for their husbands to return from work. Children also require a lot of patience to deal with, as they are slow to learn and take 18 years to grow adult. If a woman cannot tolerate minor inconveniences, that shows men around her that she is not qualitied for being a wife or a mother. That just works on instinctual level, and they ignore her.

Wrath is probably the least socially acceptable sin out there. Sure, people might not like sloth or greed, but being lazy and greedy will not land you with problems with police or security. Wrath however can. 

Unlike other sins, this one does interfere with other people's wellbeing, so it is more dangerous. Also, this is the ugliest of all sins, at least in my opinion. Prideful people can be ignored for example, but wrathful ones...

However, there can be benefits of being wrathful in a relationship with a woman. That is one cheap way of showing your strength. It does seem that sometimes women even provoke wrathful response deliberately in order to see if a man has strength.

In civilized society wrath can only lead to a trouble. However, in wild nature, showing strength can scare predators and competitors. So, it is a desirable trait. Women are still attuned to see it this way in a relationship.

There are still dangers of wrath even in a relationship, so I would recommend other sins instead.

Envy, Contentment and Kindness

Envy is a desire to have something that others have. No matter who you are, there is someone who has a better car, house, wife, clothes, mobile phone and so on. Desire to have the good stuff that others have is envy.

This one takes it one step further compared to Greed, mentioned in the previous article. If greed is to simply covet more stuff, then envy is a specific desire to have what something else has. Unwillingness to accept that someone has something you do not. In Australia we call it Tall Poppy Syndrome. A dogged determination that no one should be better off than they are.

If greed a desire to have another Lambo in your collection, then envy is determination that no one has more Lambos that you do.

Envy can be a very destructive trait, if you go about, it by destroying wealth others have, so that no one can rival you. That however can be useful for a man in maintaining your relationship with women. Women like to think that they have the best men in their lives, so not losing this status together with her to a dude with more Lambos than you have, might be useful. You might not even need to hide this desire from her, she might even agree that no one should be allowed as many Lambos as you have.

As much as many women would think that ruining all these cunts who get too close to your guy seems like a good idea, I would like to caution against it. He will surely not appreciate your efforts if he learns about them. You might even lose your relationship as he would find it detestable. Surely you might try to do it behind his back, but there is a risk you will get caught. Not that it would stop most of you. However, risk of losing him to a better girl is less than what it appears.

I think it is more appropriate to contrast Envy with Contentment rather than with Kindness. We already have Charity opposite of Greed. Kindness is basically Charity, is it not? In fact, Kindness is a better word to Charity than Charity itself. I already wrote on Charity in part one.

Contentment is acceptance of one's place in life and lack of any desire to get better stuff.

In modern free market economy contentment is does not sound like a virtue, a desire to better yourself in various ways can be considered a good thing, while acceptance of things as they are. 

In contrast in more conservative society, such as Medieval, where everyone just out to know their place and not covet any higher position, envy was considered a sin. After all peasants should just work for the robber barons and do not dream of one day becoming a baron themselves. Barons themselves sure will not appreciate anyone coveting their place in society.

On the personal level, women are much more likely to approve of a guy who wants to better himself in various ways. Women want to marry the best guy possible and of course would like to see someone trying to better their place in life.

On the other hand, men would rather have a girl who is happy with what she got. It is much more reassuring when she does not want to better her lot, because that bettering one's lot for a girl often means to find a better man. If she wants someone else, then why bother with her at all.

Pride and Humbleness

Now we finally reached the most important sin, pride. Pride is a believe that you are awesome and better than everyone else. At the very least that you are special and unique, not like everyone else.

In contrast humbleness, the most important virtue, is a believe that you are less important than everyone else. Humbleness is when you think there are more important and deserving people than you are.

Internet sometimes lashes out on prideful people, there is even a term unwarranted self-importance. Being prideful can attract hostility from people around you. From men specifically as it wounds their own feelings. Pride may get you isolated. Some people really hate prideful people, that is why it is called sin. I personally do not like prideful girls.

However, pride is probably easiest way to win girls' approval. There is almost no risk, and it easily ticks near all the boxes in her book,

So never neglect to tell you how awesome you are, how everyone else is nothing but scrubs and losers compare to you and how she is lucky you picked her from all the other cunts out there. She will be happy.

If you do not exhibit pride, then she will not be able to respect you. That will ruin your relationship with her.

Just do it privately to not attract envious people who might want to take you down.

Finally, Humbleness. That is the most important virtue that wins all the time after all. 

While girls' logic goes something like that, if she admits that some other cunt in better than herself, then the guy will simply dump her for that better girl. That is however not how guys think.

There is plenty of evidence of that. For example, sex shops are full of sexy French maid outfits. Maid is essentially a cleaner, the lowest and most humble work out there. They clean shit after other people. If men would not find this role sexy, then sex shops would sell something else instead. 

In contrast princess or queen outfits can hardly be found in any sex shops. The 'best' girl of higher status, princess, do not interest men sexually at all.

It is the same with pornography, there is plenty of porn with maids, but almost none with any princesses. Men do not fap to princesses; they do not want to fuck them either. Men want maids.

In anime it is the same. Take Re;Zero, where Subaru chooses Emilia over the humble maid, Rem. Sure scriptwriters can write whatever, but fans do tell you the truth. OneTrueRem reddit clearly more popular than a similar one for Emilia and is updated much more frequently at that as well. Fans love their humble maid, no matter how critics screech in the corner 'Rem who?'

Thus, humbleness is the most important trait for any woman. The humbler she is, the more she will be loved.